Aren't Christians suppose to do it the traditional way of asking God for guidance? But on a more serious note, one of the reasons that I left my faith was because I was once tasked with reading all the handwritten feedback then upload them on a spreadsheet.

Reading the pain and anguish of some of the writers made it impossible for me to look the writers in the eyes the following week.

Which creates the conundrum. Is it better for a church to sound upbeat but pretend that certain problems do not exist? Or tell the truth? BTW, mankind is not doomed. We will just change the church. Or the religion.